News

Good news and bad news: It appears that my health and job are somewhat secure for a while. Mid-year review went OK and blood test came up negative for cancer. Stephanie has met the new assistant principal for her school and had lunch with the person promoted to head up the school district English as a new language education program, and got along with them both. Mom's closing went fine - and she met and liked the young woman who will live there and her parents (and found that the A/C - probably 20-25 years old - died, but Mom had insured it for the whoever the buyer was before. Stephanie's mom also went home from the hospital, as her condition has improved somewhat.

Still, Nancy is weak and will be embarking on somewhat unfamiliar medical territory. And Vincent - we think - after he changed his mind and stayed in Ohio - apparently didn't get his job back (which he quit when he thought he was coming back home). Hopefully, Vincent will join Stephanie to visit Nancy and Bob at their home Saturday, while I entertain Peter and his family, before leaving for three days of meetings in Chicago Sunday night. Stephanie will come back to set up her room early this coming week.

-- Perry

First of the week

Leading into an unnerving Thursday Mid-Year Review - in the wake of a mediocre January review and May's layoffs - as well as an unnerving now-annual review of my student loan restructuring - are three medical appointments for me: follow-up to Friday's colonscopy (pictured above) which what Stephanie figured out was partly a test for prostate cancer; an follow-up to my knee reinjury with an orthopedist; and our first appointment with Vincent's/our counselor since Vincent's blow-up there earlier this summer (and our first appointment with her without Vincent since last winter).

Stephanie's Mother continues to be in the hospital - with some visitors. They've ruled out kidney problems, but she is still having bladdar problems.

Mom's realtor called to say that the closing Friday is apparently on, and so, by this weekend, Mom may no longer be a homeowner.

Stephanie was back to school for the first time in seven or so weeks, at a paid week-long district-wide curriculum planning activity. Next week she'll probably "volunteer" setting up her new half classroom.

After helping entertain houseguests this weekend, I'll be traveling a lot for work-related meetings/conference in the next couple of weeks: first to Chicago and then to Atlanta.

-- Perry

Housing and health

My Mother spent a nervous weekend waiting to hear whether the would-be buyer of her house would go ahead and buy. He had been trying to get Mom to pay to fix some additional wood rot that was found. But no final phone call came him and the drama will apparently go on until the end of the month, when the closing is scheduled. The buyer will lose some money if he does not go ahead with it. He's buying it for his daughter, a Florida State student, to live in (and probably housemates). Mom also reached a couple of milestones: she turned in the last work product for work - a short narrative describing and analyzing some data she had put into tables - and marked her fourth week of one-on-one swimming exercise activities.

Health problems also abounded in Central Ohio, where both Stephanie's Mother and Vincent have been having trouble breathing. The guess is that Nancy's problems stem from her cancer treatment and Vincent's from smoking and asthma. Nancy was slated to go to the doctor Tuesday to find out more. Vincent and his father - having left their apartment - somewhat near Vincent's work - are now staying very near the motel we sometimes stay at when we visit Ohio - and not too, too far from Stephanie's Mom. The two also had a short drive Saturday to Canal Winchester, scene of cousin Dustin and Jamie's wedding. Vincent and his father are currently staiying in an RV - apparently Vincent's grandparents' old RV - parked in the yard of a friend of Vincent's father. (They are quite far now from Vincent's job, at the North High Street Bob Evans.)

I'm wrapping up physical therapy this week (as my knee continues to feel better - the PT said I had gone from 45% to 85%), starting taking antibiotric for stomach problems I picked up in Guatemala, and start the prerlude Thursday for a Friday AM colonoscopy. i hope my current stomach problems do not jeopardize my colonoscopy.

-- Perry

Congrats!

Upon her return earlier this week, Stephanie learned that the New Albany-Floyd County (IN) school board had granted her tenure (having taught in the district for five years and her principal having giving her positive recommendations) (click on the image above to read the tenure letter). It’s complex because Stephanie occupies a niche. But, in general, it means it would be harder to lay her off and, if her position was eliminated, she could “bump” non-tenured teachers, if she were qualified for their positions.

Over the past week and a half, Mom received an offer on her house, went back and forth with the would-be buyer (a man buying the house for his daughter, who will attend Florida State, and presumably some housemates. Friday Mom’s realtor helped engineer a deal. In a couple of weeks the man will – or will not – put up a downpayment and then two weeks later a closing will take place. The downpayment will be big enough that if he pays it, he’ll definitely close. The sale somewhat official (at a somewhat discounted price), the house is apparently off the market for now. Mom doesn’t seem to be rushing back to see the house another time or two. She won’t have to worry about having to keep the outside mowed, etc., won’t have to keep paying pest control and utilities, and won’t have to worry about not being able to sell and having to rent it out.

- Perry

Family news

Friday is the big day at my job. Earlier this week Mom got the go ahead to work at home, up until her retirement date (June 4). She went in for several days and got some important work done that she could have only done in the office. She met with a fitness center staff and was a little surprised that she can only mainly do what she’s been doing at the gym (she missed a couple of days when she was at the office most of the day) – She may have to consider breaking down and do exercises in the pool. Hasn’t gone swimming for 32 years.

I called Mom’s realtor’s office about whether we could get in to see Mom’s house during our brief visit next week, and she said that prospective landlords – attracted by the four bedrooms – have been the biggest draw to see the house so far. One person who visited didn’t like the house backing onto the apartment complex (over the fence). The pictures on the realtor’s website certainly don’t show the complex behind the house (though it peaks out behind the fence in the picture above). The bigger recent challenge as been the now student rentals on both sides of Mom’s house, and we probably won’t feel great about contributing to that.

(Mom will also be headed to the doctor's office Friday for a routine visit.)

Stephanie’s had a crazy week, staying at school to work late every night, five nights in a row. Tuesday afternoon was the probably the last district-wide English as a new language teaching staff meeting with the long-time leader, who will probably have different responsibilities next year (and Stephanie’s Camry may get fixed as a follow-up to that meeting). Tuesday night brought a very modest-sized group of parents and children coming mainly from the school whose families tried to hard to keep it from getting closed (the school that President Bush visited several years ago). But one Silver Street parent said he opposed the closing but was excited about Fairmont’s diversity (including many of Stephanie’s students). Wednesday afternoon brought some annoyances but bottom line a visit by a group of district staff, local academics, and state staff eager to let the IN education officials how Stephanie’s ENL program could be a model for others around the state.

(Earlier Thursday Stephanie also took her fifth-grade ENL students - and this year the fourth-graders too - in an annual field trip to see the middle school where most of them will be attending and to meet some of the staff. The regular ENL teacher - the one injured in a bad car accident this winter - is of course still out. But they met the long-term sub who Stephanie met last week, as she's a student in one of the Indiana University Southeast teaching ENL classes.)

Undergoing new treatment, Stephanie’s mother is already seeing some new side effects (without the old side effects all going away). Earlier this month Nancy and Bob had their swimming pool filled in with a dirt – a pool that Vincent, Stephanie, and I enjoyed regularly – and that dates back almost to when Stephanie, Nancy, and Bob first lived there. Maintenance is a challenge, and neither Nancy nor Bob ought to be outside in the sun.

-- Perry

Pre-Derby week news

Mom got the OK to start back to work late last week – getting medical permission for working at home – and worked through the weekend. While she worked she started getting dinner take-out and eating in her apartment instead of in the dining room. Mom has been exercising at the retirement center gym every day since her therapy wrapped up more than a week ago.

Mom has been limiting her driving, but did get out to a Tallahassee American Association of University Women annual social event – to which she invited some other friends – last week (over the weekend – besides the funeral and wedding in Ohio – she missed the state AAUW – an event she twice ran for an organization for which she served as Historian during the past year).

Friday Mom’s realtor met with the contractors. Another damaged wood spot outside was found, this one on the bank of the house. Mom has spent about $5,000 on fixing up the house. The realtor sounds close to taking pictures of the house and putting it on the market. I hope it hasn’t closed by late May, when I’m planning to visit – I’d like to see the house one more time and like to check out what the contractors did.

Although we visited Ohio this weekend, we didn’t get to see Vincent. He started his new job as a dishwasher at a Bob Evans near Graceland shopping center in north Columbus. He worked a few hours Saturday and then more hours Sunday. He had to be there at 8 a.m. Sunday and seemed tired Sunday afternoon. The only bus that goes near his apartment goes across Morse Road to near his restaurant, but it sounds like he’s gotten rides from his father or grandfather (who’s been staying at their one-bedroom with Vincent’s grandmother and their dog) so far. We offered him a ride home Saturday but he didn’t go for that. Apparently he may have opportunities for advance, but we’ll see if he sticks with it. It’s ironic because until very recently he associated Bob Evans with breakfast food and complained when we tried to go there.

If Vincent sticks with a job he may not have a week every month or two to visit us – as he’s been doing since he no longer had a job as of early January. And given what happened late Monday night to the people he hung out with while he was here last – including hanging out with them all night exactly a week before this – http://www.fox41.com/Global/story.asp?S=12362720 – we may not want him here either. Not the comments also.

Vincent has apparently tried out some of his on-line classes he signed up for and says some of them are easy. We’ll see if he can work on school and work simultaneously.

It remains to be seen what if any classroom space Stephanie will have available to her once her school takes in 100 or so new students over the summer.

I’m excited to have Oaks Day (the day after the Pegasus Parade before Derby – the Oaks is the all-fillies race that Rachel Alexandra won last year) sort of off. We’ll see if I can get the problems with my work laptop power cord/adaptor fixed before then (which would allow me to work home some that day) and whether I’ll still have a job exactly two weeks (14 days from Oaks Day) later.

Penny is busy preparing for a series of dance performances this weekend in Virginia, where she will receive an award.

-- Perry

Surprises

Two surprising things Mom’s financial advisor told us the week before Christmas:

- Mom might be able to pay $300 a month to secure long-term care insurance.

- The way tax brackets work is not that, when your income goes up from let’s say $10,000 to $20,000, you jump up from the 10 percent tax bracket to the 20 percent tax bracket. Instead, you pay federal taxes at 10 percent on the first $10,000 (or whatever) and then at 20 percent at just the rest of the year’s income.

The realtor also called us back to tell us that getting a house on the market by April before the $8,000 tax break for first-time homeowners expires would be good, but she hasn’t talked with that many clients who used this. In Louisville, many house for-sale signs include an extra sign about the tax credit; we’ve yet to see such a sign in Tallahassee (even though on a short dog walk earlier this week Frisco and I saw NINE houses and one lot for sale!).

For more information on Mom’s financial advisor, see: https://my.hdvest.com/clements
Her office is located in the shadow of the old Tallahassee Community Hospital (pictured above), where Mom nearly died 14 years ago.

-- Perry

Expert advice

Mom and I talked with realtor Libby Allen, recommended by, on Monday afternoon. She thought Mom – with $2,000-5,000 of work – could sell her house for around $160,000. (about $100 per square foot – with 1,600 plus square feet – not counting the exterior store room). She hinted against the rental option (and her team doesn’t manage rentals though she said she personally owns some rentals). She also hinted that the 1970s décor, etc. was dated and suggested selling the house empty (after Mom has moved out, likely to Westminster Oaks). She said buyers are not looking for fixers-uppers – they want to be able to start living immediately in a house without having to do a lot of work. She said it might take as long as six months to sell a house. She brought a lot of information about the neighborhood, including how much houses had initially been offered for, how much they sold for, and how long that took.

Among the suggestions she made:
- Fix some rotting wood on the outside of the house, pressure wash the outside (and hand remove vines if pressure washing doesn’t do it), and paint all of the gables and selectively paint elsewhere. Paint the floor of the exterior store room and the carport.

- Once out, have the carpet steam cleaned but don’t replace it (saving Mom about $2,500). Consider an end zone treatment to eliminate any odors. She was not overly concerned about nicks in the linoleum or the bulletin board on the door to the interior storeroom. Leave both as is.
- Get a new range hood – perhaps Braun – for about $100 – white.

- Have the kitchen cabinets painted whites and change out the pull hinges – brushed nickel or silver color – to update the look and match the appliances.

- Paint the whole interior of the house – the walls a neutral color close to the carpet – a tan color like desert fortress – and the trim and ceiling in white. It looks like we’ve painted the walls before in semi-gloss and therefore it may not be possible to go back to flat, and so a light semi-gloss like egg shell must do. Semi-gloss walls are OK if you live there, but – for selling – flat hides imperfections. Also, fix imperfections in the walls.

- For $40, get white ceiling fans for the bedrooms, with one globe each, and change the fan blades in the family room to white. She didn’t recommend ceiling fans in the kitchen and living room.

- In the hall bathroom, have it painted and at the same time caulk the vanity and get a new sink fixture – with a lever (?) handle, silver or brushed nickel – between $55 or $88- Peerless is most affordable, or Delta or Minerva (?). I believe she suggested touching up the bathtub too (?).

- Much more radical suggestions for the master bedroom bathroom: Take out the entire set of fixtures to the right of the toilet: the sink, lights, faucets, and cabinet. Get a pre-fab vanity complete with sink, and faucets – in white – and ge ta new light fixture at the top.

Keep the mosaic tiles on the floors of the two bathrooms – but go to a pool supply store – to use commercial bleach the tile.Extending a conversation she and I had about natural light, she recommended we get rid of the curtains and rods before painting so the painters can fill the holes and leave for buyers to install (Mom remembers putting up all of those curtain rods.) Get for each window - for $50 a window – 2-inch faux wood blinds, white. For some of the wider windows, we might get two sets of blinds if that’s cheaper.

She also suggested modernizing the three light domes on the kitchen ceiling and replacing the damaged door bell. Domes cost like $20 for a set of two – Postlander – silver or near white – 139989 – also use fourth dome to replace the dome in the hallway. Also get a globe for the outdoor light fixture. On the outside door from the exterior store room, get a gold kickback (?) to cover some imperfections.

Use a razor blade on a set of spots on the interior storeroom linoleum floor.

In the kitchen, spend $100 to get a new faucet, a high-rise, and use Barkeeper’s Friend to clean the kitchen sink (also clean the overflow sink next to the washing machine.

- Keep all appliances: refrigerator, stove, dishwasher, and even the washer and dryer – they can tip the balance if the buyer doesn’t have these.

- In the yard, also mow and rake the yard more closely, clear out some sticks and debris, and trim the grass around and pressure wash the steps leading from the driveway to the front porch but keep some of the “shrubbery’ in the back yard – near the back fences – because this obscures the view of the apartment complex behind our house and the yards of the houses to the right and left of ours. On the whole, she liked our yards.

We’ll have t spend about $2,000 more at the end – documentary stamps, termite inspection, home warranty.

She can list this as a 4-bedroom or a 3-bedroom. She pays to get listings for the house in the paper and in (Tallahassee) Homes and Lands magazine, rotates the listing through her marquee on North Monroe Street, and gets the listing with about 20 photos on the Web. She’ll put a lockbox outside of our house, and when realtors stop by with potential buyers, she gets an e-mail that tells her who has stopped by, she follows up by asking what they thought, and then she gets feedback about what people do and don’t like about the house, which she’ll share with us.

The realtor also shared with us that there are 500 fewer (from 2,000 down to 1,500) realtors working in Tallahassee than there were five years ago, and she went from a staff of 14 realtor, to three, which she said is fine with her.

She also said in the past year she has started writing Christian contemporary songs, built a recording studio where she uses a synthesizer to play all of the instruments, and then brings in a friend to sing the lyrics. She even shared with us a CD. Her non-real estate Web site has the first song she wrote, about loss: http://www.myspace.com/libbyallensongs

-- Perry